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What is the difference between ‘this’ and ‘that’?

What is the difference between ‘this’ and ‘that’?

August 1, 2014 By Nestor 2 Comments

The words this and that can sometimes be confusing for English learners. In this post, I’m going to explain a few of the differences between these two words and give some examples of their use.

Distance

When we are referring to physical objects, we use this to refer to an object that is close and that to point to an object that is further away.

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We can also think about distance in time. We can use that to refer to the past and this to refer to the present, especially with the verb ‘be’:

  That was a fantastic party last night.

  This is a great party. Are you having a good time?

Introducing people

We use this when we introduce two people:

  John, this is Mike.

We also use this when introducing ourselves on the phone:

  Hello, this is Mike Chang. Can I speak to Mrs Smith, please?

But we use that when asking about the caller’s identity (especially in British English):

  Hello, is that James?

Referring to ideas

Sometimes, the difference between this and that is quite subtle. We often use this to refer to something (e.g. an idea or suggestion) that you are about to say and we use that to refer something that you just mentioned:

  Let’s go to the cinema. What do you think about that?

  What do you think about this? We could go to the cinema.

You can use this and that in the same way when you want to ask how to say something:

  ‘to be tired’…Can I say something like that in English?

  Can I say this? ‘to be tired’

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  1. Stephen PERRIER says

    March 10, 2019 at 10:38 am

    Hi !

    Great rules… but :

    “How many inches away does an object have to be for one to use that instead of this ? ”

    Why is that that icecream vans always bear the following : ” Mind that child” ?

    Reply
    • Mark Kierstead says

      October 30, 2019 at 1:25 am

      If you are holding it (this), if not (that)

      Reply

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